Is Confession Dead? An Interview with a Catholic Historian
Of course, the state's attempts to root out sexual abuse by focusing, in part, on the privacy of confession assumes that American Catholics are still celebrating the sacrament. But only a minority of the faithful are seeking out confession at all, finds author James O'Toole in his urgent, provocative new study of the sacrament, For I Have Sinned: The Rise and Fall of Catholic Confession in America
O'Toole, professor of history emeritus and the university historian at Boston College, details the growth and eventual decline of confession in the United States, prompting questions about the sacrament's future. A former archivist for the Boston Archdiocese, O'Toole spoke with the National Catholic Reporter about the once-widespread popularity of the sacrament in U.S. parishes, the ongoing controversy surrounding clergy-penitent confidentiality, and the social changes that he says dramatically reduced Americans' visits to the confessional.
NCR: In your book, you note that during the early 20th century "regular confession had taken hold as a defining characteristic of American Catholic religious life." How did the sacrament gain prominence in the United States, specifically? How frequent was confession among Americans in previous centuries?
O'Toole: I see it in terms of the growth of Catholic infrastructure — ready access to church and priests and sacramental activity. In the early years of Catholicism in this country, during the colonial period and up until the time of the Civil War, that infrastructure really just wasn't there, or it was spotty. As the infrastructure was put in place, priests could increasingly exhort their parishioners to develop regular [religious] habits. And laypeople said, "Okay, we'll do that. That's what being a Catholic is."
NCR Your book contains some eye-popping statistics regarding the popularity of the sacrament in the late 19th century. For example, between July 1896 and June 1897, the Jesuit-run Church of St. Francis Xavier in New York City reported more than 173,000 confessions, about 475 a day. How was this possible? Did priests of that era spend most of their time hearing confessions?
O'Toole: They spent an awful lot of their time hearing confessions. Those numbers could be inflated by having schools in the parishes, where kids are brought to confession on a regular basis.
I think hearing confessions was a central part of what priests did all day long. I write in the book: "Parishioners and pastors encountered one another, however anonymously, most often in the confessional." That was the point of contact, more so than Sunday Mass. At Mass, the priest was up on the altar talking in a foreign language, but in terms of personal encounter, it was in the confessional.
NCR You write that the church developed a complex and specific system for categorizing the gravity of different sins and that the threat of perdition lurked around every corner. Did Catholics mainly understand their faith through avoiding sin? How did this thinking influence Americans' relationship to confession?
O Tolle: That's an interesting way to phrase it. Interesting to me is this notion of occasions of sin, not actual offenses themselves but circumstances in normal, everyday life that might lead me to sin. Once that idea has taken hold, you're going to be thinking of sin all the time. Or you're going to be urged to think about it all the time.
NCR Your book discusses a sharp decline in the frequency of confession among American Catholics over several decades. You cite a 1975 survey that found the number of Catholics who sought out the sacrament decreased 21 percentage points, from 38 to 17%, in a single decade. Recent data reveals that only 23% of U.S. Catholics attend confession at least once per year. Do you expect numbers to decline even further?
O'Toole: Well, I don't expect them to go up appreciably. At Boston College, where I am, students go to confession with their friends. Interview those same students 10 years after they graduate. Will they still be going to confession? I think we know the answer to that. They won't.
NCR You offer several causes of death for the sacrament. But can you pinpoint a primary cause for confession's current unpopularity among Catholics?
O'Toole: More generally, I'd say the spread and acceptance of modern psychological concepts. As I wrote the book, I came to the conclusion that it was a really important part of the story. It implanted in people's minds the idea that human behavior is a complex thing, and it's more complex than the older system allowed for.
NCR At the end of your book, you ask: "With confession gone, practiced today by only a tiny minority of Catholics, what, if anything, will take its place?" Do you foresee the sacrament evolving into something radically different — or is it really dead?
O'Toole: The sacrament, in its present form, probably is dead. People just aren't doing it. It seems to me the church's response to that circumstance is often: "We'll just tell people again that they should be going to confession. They don't understand how important it is. They don't understand what it can do for them." All that may be true, but just telling people to go back to confession hasn't worked for the last 60 years, and I don't see anything that's going to change it.
That's why I think new forms need to evolve, just as the practice of private confession itself evolved from the older forms of public penance and exclusion from the community. It seems to me the church is at the kind of hinge point it was at in the seventh century.
UPDATE: THE PRESENT ARTICLE NEEDS TO BE SEEN IN LIGHT OF TWO OF MY PREVIOUS POSTS
I reviewed a Commonweal Article about how the Irish changed the Sacrament of Public Penance into the Sacrament of Private Confession. This was all formalized at the Lateran Council of 1215
What we had after 1215 was the clericalization of spiritual direction and reconciliation into a very juridical system which made Confession a private matter between God, the penitent and a priest rather than as public conversion and reconciliation. Like the public penance system from the early church, and the private penance system of the Irish monks, private confession of sins was also poorly used by the laity. That is why there is a rule about annual confession for all those who have committed serious sins. Private confession was not popular either.
In response to an attempt by Katherine Kaveny to advocate a more progressive casuistry (case law) practice in the Church, I pointed out how closely related casuistry, especially as practice in confession, is to clericalism.
I pointed out the Latin Council of 1215 requirement for confession applied to all the faithful in regard to all their sins, not simply to those who had committed grave sins. Note that confession was required to one's parish priest or a priest approved by one's pastor. The requirement for Easter communion is not as absolute as that of annual confession; their pastor could allow them to abstain. This canon made confession not communion the center of Catholic life. The consequences of failure to observe this decree were severe: excommunication during life and deprivation of Christian burial. This paragraph certainly had the potential for putting into place a Christian theocracy under control of parish priests.
For most Catholics Confession and Communion became annual events during the Easter Season until Pius X in 1910 lowered the age of first communion from12 to 7 and began to promote frequent communion. That all changed the practice of Confession and made possible frequent, e.g. monthly or even weekly Confession.
THE BOTTOM LINE! THE PERIOD DESCRIBED IN THIS ARTICLE FROM THE 1910 UNTIL VATICAN II GAVE A VERY UNUSUAL PLACE FOR CONFESSION. CATHOLICS WERE UNSUALLY CONCERNED ABOUT MINOR THINGS LIKE EATING MEAT ON FRIDAY BECAUSE THEY COULD NOT GO TO COMMUNION UNLESS THEY FIRST WENT TO CONFESSION.
Perhaps it is already evolving.
ReplyDeleteI would say that examination of conscience, spiritual discernment, and spiritual direction are the descendants of private confession that are alive and well, especially with the Jesuits.
Examination of conscience needs to get further away from the focus on sin, particular behaviors, and events to focus on where we find God in our daily lives.
Spiritual discernment has taken a huge step forward in its group and social use as part of synodality. Our personal decision makings needs to be seen in the context of decision making by others.
Spiritual direction has made progress in becoming separated from priests. It needs further progress in becoming separated from psychological analysis, i.e. personal counseling. We can receive spiritual guidance from many other people. Both people who give guidance and receive guidance need to perceive when that is appropriate.
As I understand it, confession is folded into Annointing of the Sick and Last Rites. These rites still mean something to many people. They still mean something to me, and I'm lapsed. Possibly this is where the sacrament will continue to live.
ReplyDeleteAs I understand it, confession is folded into Anointing of the Sick and Last Rites.
DeleteYes, it can be. When I was in the hospital for one of my episodes of atrial-feb, an elderly priest whom I had never met, visited me. He asked me if I wished to be anointed, and I said yes. He did the process without any explanation.
Then as I listened to what he was saying, I realized that he was giving me general absolution, the form that can be given to the dying even if they are unconscious without any confession of particular sins. It includes a plenary indulgence. The notion was that IF you are completely repentant and die, you go strait to heaven, skipping purgatory.
I received Anointing of the Sick prior to each time I had surgery. It seemed like a good idea even though I wasn't in danger of death that I knew of, things can quickly go south. I didn't go to confession prior since I had been fairly recently.
DeleteMy dad was of the generation where Anointing of the Sick was called Extreme Unction. One time he was in the hospital with pneumonia and my sister asked him if he'd like us to call Father Brian so he could be anointed. He said, "Well I'm not THAT sick!". The last time when he was in the hospital with CHF my niece just went ahead and called the priest. He accepted it; he and Father were friends. It was a good thing because he only lived a few days after that. My mom was anointed several times prior to her death. The last time she had slipped into a coma.
I understand that in medieval times you could only receive Extreme Unction once, so people waited until just about their last breath.
My closest friend rec'd Last Rights twice before she died, once when a friend called in the local priest, during which she was able to communicate that she was sorry for her sins. Her brother, a priest, administered them when she was unable to communicate. I don't think he knew ahead of time that she had already rec'd them. Her kids were with her at the time and weren't sure, so her brother went ahead.
DeleteI asked Raber to read me the rite if he's around before I croak. I take a copy of it to the hospital in my purse with me when I have had to go in for things (my fire insurance policy). I realize this is not a true sacrament, but maybe the words will be helpful in some way.
Jack - “ It includes a plenary indulgence. The notion was that IF you are completely repentant and die, you go strait to heaven, skipping purgatory.”
DeleteFor those who really believe all this I suppose it can be a comfort to them when near death. But indulgences, confession , etc are among the aspects of Catholicism that have driven me away. Indulgences are a horrible teaching, even worse than claiming that priests can absolve people from sin. The various studies show that the number one reason people leave their childhood faith Not just Catholics but all of them) is that they simply don’t accept the teachings. Those teachings that are rejected varies from denomination to denomination, but people get tired of pretending after a while. Unfortunately in a church like the RCC there are a whole lot of these very questionable teachings. Too bad because the RCC does have a lot to offer as well.
But if it makes people feel better, then there is probably no great harm done, most of the time anyway.
Being prompted to make my peace with God and the life I have been given when I am at the end of it is something that means a lot to me. I don't think we need to be contemptuous of what the Church teaches or how others believe the sacrament works (or does not) in the process. I would hope that everyone can approach death as a natural event that happens to us all, with thanks for its joys and sorrow for our sins.
DeleteI’m sure that many find comfort in some of these rituals. But it seems to my heretical heart that some of these rituals encourage superstitious beliefs - indulgences are one of those. The notion that saying certain prayers, saying prayers in a certain order, doing all the Divine Mercy stuff, novenas to St Jude, visiting shrines or attending World Youth day or going through special doors in the Vatican, and other Catholic events, making the nine First Fridays etc are all guarantees of time off in purgatory (which may not even exist). The notion that a human being can grant indulgences is giving human beings power that belongs only to God. As is the notion that God needs a man to mediate so that God can absolve sins. Confession as a form of spiritual counseling that helps some is one thing, but teaching that it’s needed for absolution is wrong IMO. Cons Dion had been abused as a means of control for too long. Going to Confession once/ year isn’t even a church law. Receiving communion at least once/ year is a church law. Based on the Catholics I know who are most “ devout” and who go to confession regularly I doubt its efficacy in improving their Christian characters. But they think it’s all good - just go back, clean the slate, and return to what they always do. Rinse and repeat. So add judgmentalism to my list of sins. I talk with God about that fairly often. Generally I can course correct for a while by reading something from one of my favorite spiritual guides. Then I slip. Regular silent prayer works best for me for insights into my sins and for correcting them. But I can’t pray much these days. I’m blocked. The spiritual guides tell me that the answer to that is just to keep praying even though it seems pointless.
DeleteI’m not sure what spiritual direction actually accomplishes. Some people seem to get a lot out of it. Jack can correct me if I’m wrong, but I thought the point is to help people pray “ better”. I do need that. I went to two sessions with someone at the EC parish but figured it wasn’t for me. He ( a trained lay person) at least wasn’t charging money for it.
I don’t know if reciting sins on my deathbed would actually be a way to make my peace with God. I am more worried that I won’t be able to find forgiveness for some people in my life and make my peace with them. I have to try to make peace with God every day because sometimes I get fed up with God allowing his free- will creatures to mess up the world, especially harming the innocents who suffer so. I get angry with God who supposedly loves us. Cruel suffering is one reason I can’t believe in atonement theology and also believe that God is love. No God of love would require that Jesus be tortured to death to atone for the sins of mankind. No religion, including Catholic Christianity, can explain theodicy satisfactorily. I do feel ( with Augustine) that for most of us, our souls are restless until they rest in God - but who or what God is can not be defined with certainty with finite human minds. So I will probably die while still arguing with God.
I think it’s time for me to read some spiritual wisdom.
Does confession need to live..? It’s pretty much died for good reasons. Those who feel a need for it still may go. Anointing of the sick and last rites can be given without a person confessing. I was given the Last Rites when I was resuscitated ( but not conscious) after my cardiac arrest when I was ten.
ReplyDeleteJack-“ We can receive spiritual guidance from many other people”. Yes.
You were likely given full and complete absolution without confession.
DeleteHow can you get full and complete absolution without Confession?
DeleteJack, I don’t believe that a priest has the power to absolve sins. No need for absolution from a man. Priests are human beings. Only God has the power to absolve sins. God doesn’t need a human being to mediate. God alone - not men - knows what is in our hearts, and our every thought and action we take - good or bad. And only God knows if we truly repent. It’s pretty easy to fake. I think one of the worst reasons some Catholics go to confession is to get their regular fill- up of high octane “sacramental” grace - as if “ ordinary” grace is second rate. Grace is all around us, all of the time. Perhaps a priest might help some understand this, but unfortunately many Catholics assume the priest is God in the confessional, not just a man in a Roman collar - a normal human being just like the rest of us. They think he has God’s power to forgive and absolve sins. I think that belief results in tragic consequences at least some of the time. The main value of confession isn’t confession - it’s the examination of conscience. It the church wants confession to live on, they should pay attention to the huge turnout for penance services that feature examination of conscience. And they should also notice that the majority at the service head for the doors right after rather than visiting one of the borrowed priest confessors.
DeleteKatherine, there have never been long lines for confession at the parishes I attended around here. There was a big push, but the parishes mostly reduced their expanded confession times to 30 minutes on a weekday and 30 minutes on a weekend day. Since the parishes have thousands of families registered, it seems-not many are going to confession. I also never found a priest in my parishes who was a good candidate to provide spiritual direction so just as well that they don’t . My “ spiritual director” was a laywoman - unofficially of course- one of my closest lifelong friends. I’ve mentioned her before. She now has Alzheimer’s . She had more wisdom, holiness and spiritual insights than any parish priest I have ever known. She was essentially also my confessor though - the one I could hash things through with, who challenged me, who knew when I was hedging, or rationalizing something - she knew me so well. I miss her as there are things I would love to discuss with her - especially about my lapses of patience with my husband at times. Caregiving can be so hard, as Jean knows because of her parents. As Jack knows because of caring for Betty. As my friend knew from caring for her on mother for years before she died of Alzheimer’s at age 100. Now my friend is lost in the haze of Alzheimer’s also.
I read that article, and found it a little...I don't know, presumptive and premature in pronouncing the sacrament dead. I suppose it varies with location. I would say most practicing Catholics here go to Confession at least with Christmas or Easter. I don't think priests of my lifetime spent all their time hearing confessions. Mostly there were and are scheduled times, for instance Saturday afternoons and First Fridays.
ReplyDeletePeople sometimes go as an act of devotion rather than being conscious of serious sin. I will say that I have a much different understanding of the sacrament than I did as a child, less legalistic or based on shame. I find that participating on a regular basis helps me to be more kind and less judgemental in my thoughts, and more conscious of the need for prayer.
Re spiritual direction. I have no idea what this even is or how it's done. I see that the Dominicans offer it at their mother house but you have to pay a lot for it. Looks like buying holiness to me.
ReplyDeleteMaybe it could work like AlAnon, you get a sponsor who reminds you if the "rules" and keeps your thinking in the right groove. That can get a bit cult-y.
The closest I get to Confession is reading about the saints of yore and trying to follow their practical examples or asking God to forgive me for squandering opportunities to be Christ to others.
For those who are more faithful to Catholic teaching than I am, I'm sure Confession could be helpful and salvific.
I don't really use confession for spiritual direction? I've had the same two priests for confessors for 30 years, I consider them friends and sometimes they offer words of wisdom. Sometimes we just wish each other well after absolution and call it good.
DeleteI think your idea about reading about the saints (especially those who left writings) is a good place for spiritual insight.
Sometimes I have trouble getting to sleep and staying asleep, and I kind of invented my own litany of the saints to get settled. I go through the alphabet and think of saints whose names start with those letters and say "pray for us". It kind of works to get back to sleep.
I often use the rosary to do something similar, naming as many saints as I can on each bead. Sometimes I linger in one bead to ask for help. Saint Francis, pray for us and thank you for watching over my cats Daisy and Flora.
DeleteConfessors I had were bored and irritable. Everyone tells you to shop around, but I don't think the idea is to keep taking the same sins to different priests until you find one who goes easy on you.
DeleteI have updated this article to refer two previous posts which commented on Commonweal articles on the history of Confession as it was practiced during the first thousand years and then annual confession after the Lateran Council.
ReplyDeleteWhat is clear from this article is that frequent communion after 1910 also meant frequent confession. While frequent communion became even more frequent after Vatican II, frequent confession has died off.
I think this historian's conclusion that modern psychology has changed people's understanding of human behavior and therefore sin is worth considering.
The NCR article discusses the matter of whether a priest should be required to break the "seal of confession" if someone confesses sexual abuse of a minor. I would suggest that it's a moot point. One reason is that it would be unlikely to happen. Not only do fewer people go to confession nowadays, but abusers often convince themselves that they're not doing anything wrong. If they did decide to unburden their conscience, they would be very unlikely to go face to face, to a priest who knew them. They would go behind the screen, and not in a parish they had been members of. The priest hearing the confession could say that absolution would be conditional to turning themselves in. But how are they doing to enforce that? Are they going to open the door and do a "citizen's arrest"?
ReplyDeleteThe difference between that situation and that of a counselor or lawyer is that they would know the identity of their client.
DeleteThe new year has gotten off to a rather depressing start with everything that has happened in the news cycle. It is necessary to do self care sometimes and detach from the things you can't do anything about.
ReplyDeleteI found this podcast to have food for thought along those lines. It is by the Dominican priest I follow who talks about the souls who can't move on. Except this episode is nothing to do with dead people or near death. He and his sister talk about finding gentle joy in the new year:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_gtbXcFP-8A&pp=QAFIAQ%3D%3D
Thanks. I appreciate anybody's effort to point out the cracks in the hard road o' life where hope, decency, and a few laughs seep through.
DeleteI can’t help but wonder how often JD Vance goes to confession. Or Thomas, Roberts, Alito, Kavanagh and Amy Barrett Coney? Do they ever discuss their sins that are destroying our country to their priests, looking for absolution? And getting it?
DeleteRobert Hanssen was the worst spy in FBI history, responsible for the executions of multiple American agents around the world by the Soviet Union. He reportedly went to confession to his Opus Dei priest regularly, telling the priest of his betrayals, selling information to the Soviets.,
What good is confession if Catholic priests simply listen, give out three Hail Marys and an Our Father, and “ absolve” the person? Reportedly some priests who abused kids confessed it regularly so that they could receive communion while saying mass! Confession was used to recruit kids to abuse. It seems that confession does little good but potentially a lot of harm. Whatever Katherine confesses every couple of weeks is not likely to cause great harm. Those who seem to be truly evil - like Vance- aren’t going to correct the harm they are doing by going to confession.
I consider that Opus Dei is a cult, and a type of heresy, so people who are involved in that aren't getting spiritual direction that would turn their lives away from the sins of misdirected power.
DeleteYou get out of confession what you bring to it. If you don't bring repentance and a resolve to do better, it isn't going to magic you into a better person. If people actually do confess doing high crimes and personal abuse, it's on their confessor to try to impress on them the gravity of what they do. I think some of the ones you mention are really good at compartmentalizing and deflection, they would tend to downgrade what they did to "misdemeanors" if they mention them at all. Things like "I told a lie", nevermind that the lie resulted in someone's death.