Tuesday, May 31, 2022

Participation game-changer

A few months ago, we installed two large video screens in our church.  The lyrics of every sung word are now projected on the screens.  As a result, people  participate better - it's really noticeable.

Before we brought in the screens, we had hymnals in the pews (we still do, but for Sunday mass, nobody need open a hymnal anymore).  I've been involved in music ministry in one capacity or another in this parish for 30+ years now, and I had a pretty good handle on the parish's level of musical participation: it was okay.  Occasionally rising to good (there are some songs that they really like to sing).  But rarely doing better than good, and not consistently doing better than okay.

It turns out that not asking people to pull out a thick, heavy book and leaf through it find the right page increases their ability to participate.

Vatican II's Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy proclaims, at no. 14, that "Mother Church earnestly desires that all the faithful should be led to that fully conscious, and active participation in liturgical celebrations which is demanded by the very nature of the liturgy."  That is both our right and duty, the Council continued, by reason of our baptism.

In the restoration and promotion of the sacred liturgy, this full and active participation by all the people is the aim to be considered before all else; for it is the primary and indispensable source from which the faithful are to derive the true Christian spirit; and therefore pastors of souls must zealously strive to achieve it, by means of the necessary instruction, in all their pastoral work. [Emphases added by me]

When the Council promulgated those words, some six decades ago, the Catholic mass was different in many ways.  The ritual was largely the same as that codified by the Council of Trent in the 1500s.  The text in use at the time of the Council was significantly different than what is in use today; and the liturgical spirituality also was different then.  Although a spirit of liturgical reform, including greater sung participation, already was finding its way into the Catholic church in the years before the Council, the common understanding was that the mass "belonged to" the priest, assisted by the altar boys.  The people were there to watch and pray (although not necessarily the text of the missal), possibly hear a sermon, and receive communion.  The spoken words of the ritual were in Latin.  Many people passed the time of unintelligible (and frequently inaudible) ritual words by praying a rosary.  Paraliturgical devotions such as Benediction and Novenas were popular ways for people to engage in group participatory prayer, but this was outside of mass.

And so, in desiring a significant liturgical reform (both text and spirituality), the Council Fathers perceived that there was a massive education gap: the people didn't understand that they had an important, participatory role in celebrating mass, and so it was up to pastors to teach us what we should be doing.

And pastors tried.  I was a child during the early years of the liturgical reform.  I remember liturgical commentators (a role which has virtually disappeared now) telling us what to do during mass.  I attended a Catholic school in which the teachers (some were religious sisters, but their vocations already were waning in the 1970s) tried to teach us kids what to do during mass.  And then would lead us to weekly school masses where they kept an eagle eye on us to ensure we were participating as expected. 

The pedagogical thought at that time was: this is a new way of celebrating mass.  Neither the priest nor the people had to grapple up until then with popular participation.  But the Council told us to teach people to participate, and so the parishes tried.

Has this zeal for popular liturgical instruction, which I experienced in the immediate aftermath of the liturgical reform, continued in the ensuing decades?  In my observation, it hasn't.  I am sure the people's participatory role in liturgy is covered in our parish's children's faith formation and sacramental prep programs (although I suspect this formation isn't nearly as in-depth as the in-school formation I received in the 1960s and 70s).  But there isn't much instruction at all for anyone older than, say, 10th grade (which is when our formal faith formation ceases, with Confirmation).  

Every once in a while, there is discussion of using one of the Sunday masses as a "teaching mass", in which the priest pauses at the beginning of each "liturgical unit" to explain what is about to happen.  I have experienced a few of these here and there, and I have to say, they sound better in theory than they work in practice.  They are long and boring.  The fundamental drawback is, people aren't there to learn; they're there to worship.

But we must also consider another observation: liturgical instruction and formation are necessary but not sufficient to induce people to participate fully, consciously and actively.  More is needed.

What "more" is needed?  The church has been grappling with this question for decades.  In my opinion, it is the great question for the post-conciliar liturgical reform.  We've managed to get some fraction of the people (a third?  Half?) to actively sing, and a somewhat larger fraction to speak the spoken responses.  But we've been stuck there for many years.  

Attempting to solve the puzzle of getting people to participate fully, consciously and actively has led to all sorts of liturgical trial and error.  It has led many celebrants to adopt the presiding style of "Father Hank" (as satirized by Thomas Day in his book, "Why Catholic's Can't Sing"), with his cheery informality, jokiness and inability to remain in the sanctuary during mass.  As a sort of reaction to "Fr. Hank", we have witnessed the "reform of the reform" movement, the thesis of which is that the post-conciliar reform went astray in many ways by settling for mediocrity; the proposed remedy is a restoration of liturgical formality, 'hieratic' language, costly vestments and vessels, the undoing of post-conciliar church remodeling and reconfiguration, et al.  

Grappling with the question has led to the proliferation of many styles of music, from organ and cantor to formal choirs to "guitar groups" to praise bands and many other approaches besides.

These decades of trial and error are my decades.  I've done my share of grappling with the question: how to induce people to participate fully, consciously and actively.   I'm in favor of doing whatever works.  But in my view, the verdict is: nothing particularly works.  None of this experimentation with various styles and approaches has made a significant, positive difference.  (If any of them are done poorly, any or all of them can make a significantly negative difference).  

And so, in my view, the effectiveness of large screens which display the sung lyrics in improving the full, conscious and active participation of the people, is an important development.  It's the single biggest difference-maker I've seen in decades.  

A few observations as to why I think the screens work:

  • As I mentioned above: people don't have to work as hard to sing.  They can simply glance up, and there are the words
  • The physical posture of people lifting their heads to sing (rather than looking downward at a bulky hymnal in their hands) results in a better sound
  • In our culture today, people are naturally drawn to screens.  They may be more likely to look at a screen than a book
  • Our liturgy and music director made a wise decision in not putting everything on-screen.  We don't display the priest's texts (such as the Eucharistic Prayer).  We don't display the texts for the readings.  The only thing we do to invite participation is to display song lyrics, and the texts of certain prayers, such as the Creed.  We expect that people know how to recite the Our Father already.  We expect that they know, or can quickly learn, to respond, "Lord have mercy" or "Lord, hear our prayer" at the appropriate time.  Thus, we're not using the screens as the electronic equivalent of the missalette.  Those are available in the back of the church for people who want or need them, such as those who don't hear well, or young children learning the mass, or those for whom English is not a first/comfortable language
The screens are a difference maker.  More so than I had expected.

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  1. Must be a trend. My church installed two big screens a few months ago. I thonk they're useful.

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  2. Sorry, I'd be grabbing a missalette or a big heavy hymn book. Guess I'm kind of a Luddite. The songs projected on the wall or a screen make me think of "Song Along With Mitch" and following the little bouncing ball. (Showing my age there!) Besides, the song projected on the wall probably won't show the notes, or that the hymn tune of Alleluia, Sing to Jesus is Hyfrydol. Words by William C. Dix, tune by Rowland H Prichard, 1911-1887. All of which information is in the fine print in the missalette or hymnal. But then a lot of people probably don't care about that. If I go to another church for a wedding or funeral I always check out their hymnal while I am sitting there. The Lutherans have some good ones.

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    1. Oops. Rowland Prichard's dates should be 1811-1887. He couldn't be born in 1911.

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    2. Katherine - yes, I had a few qualms as well - but now that I've seen it in action, I'm a believer. "Follow the bouncing ball" in the movie theaters was before my time (although I remember seeing it on television when I was a kid - for some reason, I associate it with Mighty Mouse), but I'm told that it had some lovely participation! Music-making was a lot more communal then than now.

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  3. I guess one advantage of projecting the words on the wall would be that the !music people could use any appropriate song they wanted to. A pet peeve of choirs is that the music editions change out every year and some of our favorites get dropped. Of course we can still use them as meditations but if we want people to sing, (and we do) they need to at least have the words.

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    1. Right. Similar reprint licensing requirements apply for projecting it on the big screens as if the songs were going to be printed in disposable worship aids.

      On the other hand, the choir director loses the ability to "call an audible" and pick, say, a different song for Presentation of the Gifts based on what the homilist had just preached. The music ministers have to sing what's going to be displayed on the screens.

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  4. Screens are everywhere now, and my guess is that screens make people feel more comfortable than fumbling around in a book. Kills fewer trees, though I presume projectors burn electricity.

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    1. Right - it's a PowerPoint presentation that travels over wire (or it may be wireless) to the screens, which are actually extremely big-screen televisions.

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    2. Are there savings to the parish? Seems like they could ditch the missile and hymnals.

      Do screens reduce the impact of visual art in the church--icons, statues, the crucifix? Will this usher in a lot of new thinking about church design that considers that people are looking more at the screens than on objects of contemplation?

      I've noticed that wealthier parishes seem to support a variety of "worship spaces" on their campuses--side chapels, mazes, gardens, Stations, etc. Perhaps the domination of the sanctuary by screens will lead to more of these areas for private worship and contemplation?

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    3. missle = missal, stupid autocorrect

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    4. Jean - I don't think there are any savings. The system itself required an upfront expenditure to purchase the equipment and software and have it installed; and then I am sure there is a recurring maintenance fee as well. The parish raised funds for the initial purchase.

      It's possible we may be able to reduce our subscription to missalettes. Even before the screens, our missalette subscription wasn't large enough to have them in every pew rack; we have them available on tables in the narthex, and it's up to the person who wants one to grab it him/herself on the way in.

      The presence of the screen does impact the aesthetics of the church. At the very least, it adds a visual element - a very large, prominent, rectangular visual element - which wasn't there before. Our church was built in the 1960s and has a lot of the characteristics of churches from that era. Visually, it is pretty sparse. There is not much by way of statues or stained glass or alcoves. There is no painting or frescoes. The design principle of that era was: the gathered people constitute the primary visual element of the space.

      The screens themselves are mounted on either side of the altar. I would estimate they are 20-30 feet above the floor. They are mounted on walls which formerly were blank white expanses. (I am not particularly a fan of the sparse church style I am describing; I had often thought that the blank white expanses would be much improved with religious art :-)).

      For a church space like that of the parish I grew up in, which did have lots of statues, stained glass etc., it would be considerably more complicated to figure out where to put the screens, because they probably would end up obscuring something which formerly was visible.

      When the screens are on, their contribution to the aesthetics changes. There are long stretches, such as before mass, during the homily or the Eucharistic Prayer, when the screens are not being used to display song lyrics. During those periods, the screens are showing religious "clip art": simple elements such as a cross or a chalice or a mountain. Whether that is a net addition or subtraction probably depends on one's taste.

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    5. I suppose an alternative to physical screens would be a Website that worshippers could go to on their phones that would be in sync with the liturgy. Then, of course, people would have an excuse to look at their phones in church. Haha, as if they needed one.

      Religious clip art on screens. My God. As the repository of some of the world's greatest art, the Church can't help parishes do better than that? The ability of Catholics to read and value their own iconography is apparently dead. It makes me want to weep.

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  5. Is getting people to sing the most important thing in “ participation “? It seems to me that with so much emphasis on music, the mass is in danger of becoming little more than a singalong.

    I’m not sure how they do it, but in the EC parish we belong to, and in those we have visited, about 95% of the people sing. Without big screens. Not sure what the significance might be of that difference between the EC and RC participation rate when it comes to singing or why the EC seems to get more participation. Of course, silence - no music - is the best of all. ;)

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    1. Anne, you have a good point. And this is from a church musician. I've been to the large, urban, (suburban?), parishes that my kids attend. They have professional musicians on staff and the music seems very slick and entertainment industry- ish (if that makes any sense). And I don't know any of the songs. I agree that sometimes silence is the best music. Which is why I
      like daily Masses best.
      I think the EC and other Protestant churches probably sing better because it's what they grew up with. And just guessing they don't change the songs out all the time, probably have a permanent hymnal.

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    2. The hymnal hasn't changed in ECUSA for a long time, though there is "new music" that liturgical conservatives like me hate. Most of my favorite Anglican hymns are in the Catholic hymnal, but often with slight wording changes ("Immortal, Invisible," a perplexing example).

      Solo singing bugs me, but others seem to enjoy it, so I try not to be a grinch about it.

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    3. "Is getting people to sing the most important thing in “ participation “?"

      Right, important question.

      We need both: sung participation, and silence. In my view, we're not doing either as well as we could/should.

      The ideal would be both internal and external participation. The interior participation would be the person's heart and soul being lifted up in thanks and praise. That interior participation would have outward expression, in a variety of ways: speaking or singing; postures; gestures; etc.

      Speaking what is to be spoken, and singing what is to be sung, is part of that external participation. It's part of our job to do those things.

      In my view, the worship style/spirituality which continues to exert the most influence on Catholic worship, even 50 years into the reformed liturgy, is the low mass. The priest has most of the responsibility; and the people stay silent and passive. A lot of people haven't let go of that approach. - even people who are far too young to have any actual living memory of a low mass. It's in our Catholic bones, I guess.

      In theory, every word of the ritual text could be sung. We could have much more music than we do. The dialogues could be chanted. The Eucharistic prayer could be chanted.

      I think of what is sung today as having evolved in three stages:

      Stage 1: the low mass: nothing is sung.

      Stage 2: the "four-hymn sandwich": the low mass with four participatory hymns interspersed (entrance hymn, offertory hymn, communion hymn, recessional hymn)

      Stage 3: the "four-hymn sandwich" with some of the readings, common prayers and acclamations sung (Glory to God, Responsorial Psalm, Gospel Acclamations, the Eucharistic acclamations, Lamb of God. Sometimes the Our Father).

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    4. So singing, saying a few responses, making a few ritual gestures, and observing a minute of silence ( if that) is how full participation is defined?

      Having been to multiple Jewish services over the years, usually in conjunction with a bar/bat mitzvah, I would say they are the only examples I’ve ever seen personally of full participation by the congregation. The service lasts at least two hours, maybe three. But there is a lot of coming and going of people, which is apparently fully acceptable. Each child has an individual service ( not a group ceremony) during which the bat/ bar mitzvah child is called to read the Torah in Hebrew, and to converse in informal discussion p, answering a few questions, with the rabbi. What truly surprised me was that during the service, after readings, the rabbi gives a brief “homily“ and then calls on the members of the congregation to share their thoughts on the readings. The congregants also ask questions and freely debate the rabbi. This can develop into some really interesting discussions between the rabbi and the individuals in the congregation, based in the few I’ve witnessed. I loved it. That to me is “ full participation “ by the laity. At some point the rabbi ends the conversation and goes back to the readings and the remainder of the ritual. Oh - and they read prayers out loud as a congregation ( more than just the creed and Our Father equivalent) and they sing together, often in Hebrew. They have prayer books so everyone can participate. I was able to pray also when the prayers were in English. The readings are also in the prayer book in Hebrew and English. Reminds me of my old St Joseph’s missal with Latin and English. .

      I have only been to Conservative and Reform temples, so perhaps it’s different in Orthodox Jewish communities.

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    5. In our EC pre-Covid we attended the Rite I service, the marginally more traditional rite. Your “ stage 3” sounds like it, although there might be a couple of additional hymns. Some were sung in Latin ( Gloria, Agnus Dei). The liturgy is 75 minutes so time for an extra hymn or two. There are two hard bound books in the pews for the congregants - The Book of Common Prayer and a Hymnal. Although the hymns are chosen to follow the liturgical year, most of them seem to be very familiar to the people.

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    6. Rite II may also have sung or spoken parts. At some point in the late 80s, singing the Gloria and other previously spoken parts was encouraged. But the frills and flourishes in either rite can be amped up or toned down depending on the occasion and whether the church is low, broad, or high.

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    7. Jim mentioned stages 1, 2, and 3. Right now it seems we just do 1 and 3. Stage 1 for daily Mass, and stage 3 for Sunday. I don't see anything wrong with doing stage 2 sometimes. We used to a lot.
      Anne, I used to have a St. Joseph daily missal too. We used to say the Latin responses at school Masses; I think the sisters anticipated some of the changes of VII.
      Jean, about "high, low, and broad church", is that pretty much a matter of preference of the congregation? Do they accept one another's differences, or do the high church ones pretty much think the others are heretical, like the radical traditionalist Catholics seem to.

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    8. High church folks can be snobs about their own good taste, and you sometimes hear broad and low parishes make snide remarks about "Roman" practices, but, no, the Puritan movement forced the Anglican communion to become more elastic to accommodate worship preferences of the parish.

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  6. Use the screen as Icons when they are not being used to project music or text to be sung or read by the congregation. By icon I mean any high quality photograph whether religious or secular that takes us beyond ourselves to the transcendent.

    One might begin with just one Icon per Mass and use it as the Icon of the Day. The Orthodox have that on a little stand in front of the sanctuary.

    Or one could have a procession of Icons. One before the Liturgy, One Each for the Readings, One for the Homily, One for the Prayer of the Faithful, One During the Eucharist Prayer, One for the End of Mass. One could beautifully integrate the whole liturgy, homily and music by carefully selected high quality photographs. And bring forth all the talent of the amateur photographers as well as amateur musicians. Of course just Masses would require a great deal of work by many people. But its that not what Liturgy is, from the Greek for a public work, a work of, by, and for the people.

    If the technology allows one could have different icons on each screen. Our local Orthodox Church has all its walls painted with 6ft high and 10ft wide icons. It is like being surrounded by the Divine Mysteries


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    1. Yah, I never understood why there is a "music ministry" and not an "art ministry" in a parish. My late friend Dan had some Orthodox nuns who did the altar screen icons at his Melkite parish. He invited me to the service where they unveiled it, and he gave a talk about eastern iconic style and a rundown on each saint. There is a lovely passage in the Museum of Abandoned Secrets, a Ukrainian novel, where the protagonist goes into a church in Kyiv full of icons and thinks she is in heaven. Which is the point of looking at icons, I guess. Not gonna get that with clip art of a chalice.

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    2. I believe many cathedrals have an art ministry, ours does. Probably a bit beyond the scope of the average parish, though our small parish has about ten large oil paintings of saints, and a large mural of the Ascension. (Long story for another time how that happened).

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    3. Likely the cathedrals try to set an example of good ecclesiastic taste and design. Built of Living Stones is a whole big book of art rules and guidelines for parishes from the USCCB. Some of the language is pretty subjective ("beautiful," "excessive," and "harmonious"). Some gets more specific (avoid banners with words on them). If screens catch on, likely they and whatever images, if any, may be projected will get addressed in some future revision.

      Until then, one hopes that screens will follow the general rule that images should not distract from what is going on at the altar, but should enhance one's concentration on the main action in a way that elevates the spirit of the community at worship.

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  7. Katherine, a British author named Susan Howatch wrote mostly gothic mysteries and family sagas. She eventually converted to Christianity and wrote six novels called the Starbridge novels. The cathedral that is the site of the stories is modeled on Salisbury Cathedral in England. The characters and plots are all clergy or lay persons closely associated with the Church of England. The different characters represent the different strains of Anglicanism. Each novel is narrated by one of the characters and provides different perspectives on some of the same plot events and characters. You might find them interesting. A bit gothic but not overboard. I found some of the dialogues between characters about the church, theology etc to be fairly interesting though the author’s basic style is not one I normally like. The books do provide insight into the different streams of Anglican thought and styles of worship.

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Susan_Howatch

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    1. I have actually read some of Susan Howatch's novels, both before and after her conversion. Mixed feelings, I enjoyed some of the stories (and the discussion of church theology) but found some of the characters troubling. There was sexual abuse in the gothics, and spiritual abuse in the later ones (I remember in particular one character's religious superior drowning the man's cat because he was too attached to it).

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    2. I also found some aspects of the books to be troubling, including the incorporation of the occult at times as well as the behavior of some characters. The gothic came through and I’m not a fan. I don’t remember details now as I read the books a long time ago. But the insights about the different streams of Anglicanism were interesting to me.

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    3. Trollope's Barsetshire cycle is a pretty humorous examination of C of E differences. The awful Proudies, who insist on calling Sunday "the Sabbath" are low church partisans. I think there is similar horror expressed over a priest enamored of the Oxford Movement. Most Anglicans don't like to move off their Golden Mean. Looking to get out of my reading desert, so will give Howatch a look.

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    4. I will look for the Trollope series. I imagine it is also a bit highbrow. Howatch - being a gothic horror writer- isn’t (highbrow). But I still read most of the Starbridge series - there was enough to keep me interested in spite of the occasional occult parts and the sometimes despicable behavior of the protagonists.

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    5. I haven't read Trollope, but we watched the miniseries of "Dr. Thorne". We thought it was good.

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  8. Off topic, but the WaPo had a moving story about Uvalde's only Catholic priest, Eduardo Morales, who is slated to do 11 funerals for the massacre victims. Sounds like his bishop is providing support for him and the community. "Funeral after funeral, Uvalde’s only Catholic priest leans on faith"

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    1. I read that article, poor guy. It's his hometown, he knew everybody. An additional layer of complication is that some of the police officers involved in the incident are members of his parish.

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    2. I feel compelled to write him a note. I hope he knows he's doing God's work and that it matters. It made me feel better to know there is someone helping pick up the pieces down there, and that his bishop has his eye on him.

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  9. Prayers for The Boy if anyone has a spare moment. He was at the vet's all night with one of his cats who didn't make it. Not sure that people understand how much animals enhance the lives of those "on the spectrum," and how hard it is when they lose them.

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    1. I will keep him in my prayers. I like animals but am not a pet person. But I understand the loss.

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    2. This was a "special needs" cat he and his ex adopted. I've seen shelters--including mine--take in some sad-ass animals and circulate tear-jerker stories about them. This always perks up donations, but I wonder about the people who eventually adopt these critters. They're usually people like my kid who have more heart than money.

      I also think more healthy animals could be neutered and saved if the shelters euthanized more of their hopeless cases. But there is tremendous (and I think misguided) pressure on shelters to go the no-kill route.

      I wouldn't change my kid's kind heart, but I wish he'd be less impulsive about saving things.

      Anyway, Raber will be digging another cat grave out back this evening, and The Boy will collect her from the cat morgue for burial tomorrow.

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    3. Jean, I’m so, so sorry to learn about this sadness for your son. It’s SO hard to lose a beloved pet. It’s been more than 15 years since we lost our beloved golden retriever. We never have gotten another dog. But even harder for your son since his ex isn’t with him to share the grief. . Prayers ascending.

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    4. Betty loves animals. She had two dogs, one was old and near death; the younger very feisty but they got along well. Unfortunately, shortly after the older dog died, the younger was killed by an automobile.

      I am not such a great fan of pets. A little of Pope Francis in me. I wonder why all the care for animals. Maybe we need to spend our time and money on people.

      Betty still misses her dogs.

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    5. I am surrounded by dogs on the neighboring properties. One is huge monster. That neighbor put up a high fence when I expressed my concerns that with its size and my balance problem it could easily knock me to the ground even when being playful. The other neighbor has two small ones. All the dogs bark all the time. Glad that does not get on my nerves.

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    6. Yah, not trying to push pets on people who don't like animals or soliciting advice on what my kid should spend his money on. Sorry I brought it up.

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    7. Jean, I feel badly for your son. One of our cats died right before the Covid lockdown. The one we still have is 18 years old and isn't doing well. He has really gone down hill in the past month. We're probably going to have to make a decision soon.
      I told my husband I don't want to have any more pets after this one goes. I don't want to go through the death of one again, and there is the chance that the next one might outlive us. Which would be worse because there is no family members who could take them. Our kids have allergies in their families.
      Sending prayers for your son that he can remember the love and be able to let go of the grief.

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    8. I can't argue with someone loving and grieving over their pets. They're more likely to love people than not. One reason (among 8,752) I never trusted Trump was his aversion to dogs and animals. I could never understand why Trumpers who have pets weren't bothered by this. Brand loyalty, I guess.

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    9. Thank you, Stanley. The cats taught the boy respect, empathy, and caring at a time when he was having a hard time socializing with people. The cats also became a way for him to connect with other kids (wanna come over and see my cat?). Worked better than the dope they prescribed, anyway. Guess I'm a bit surprised that someone like Jack in the mental health field is critical of pet ownership, which can be therapeutic for some people with disabilities.

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    10. I think of all the service dogs and service animals. Prisoner programs in which they care for horses, dogs, etc. Life connecting with life. Your instincts with your son were true.

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    12. I'm really sorry to hear it , Katherine.

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