Wednesday, March 2, 2022

Penance, Confession, Reconciliation: A History

Commonweal has published an article entitled

How the Irish Changed Penance
The history of a sacrament 

by John Rodden, " a longtime contributor to Commonweal, writes frequently both on the history of Catholicism and on Irish cultural history and politics."  

In my opinion Rodden has written an interesting opinion piece about the Irish in relation to Penance but has not dealt with our post Vatican II poorly executed attempt to understand and reform this sacrament as Reconciliation.

"Most Catholics are probably unaware that what we today call the sacrament of Reconciliation existed in a completely different form during the early Christian era... all of the (Sacraments) have changed in important ways over the course of the Church’s history, and none has changed more than the sacrament of penance.

Sacrament of Public Penance

"For the Church’s first seven centuries, penance could be received no more than once in a lifetime....A formal system of public penance was devised to handle such setbacks. Typically, after penitents confessed to the local bishop, they were assigned an onerous penance that lasted several years. During this time they wore sackcloth and garments that scratched or tore the skin, as a modest reminder of Christ’s scourging. They were also required to leave Mass immediately after the homily and forbidden to receive the Eucharist. At least part of their penance consisted of long hours of prayer and fasting. Not until they had completed this long and arduous penitential period were they “reconciled” with the Church and welcomed back into full communion.

"But reconciled penitents were expected to continue some penitential practices, such as abstinence from sexual intercourse, for the rest of their lives. Those who had been thus reconciled could not be admitted to the clergy or to most public offices. They remained permanently in a somewhat inferior position within the Church, partly for social reasons and partly as an explicit reminder of their lapse. Moreover, such a reconciliation was permitted no more than once in a lifetime, and it was required only for what were regarded as mortal sins, such as murder, adultery, and apostasy. Those guilty of what we now call venial sins were not expected to undergo any formal process; instead, they found forgiveness for their sins by participating in the Eucharist, almsgiving, and seeking forgiveness from those whom they had offended."

Sacrament of Private Confession

"By the seventh century, it had become obvious to many that the Church’s rules for penance were not working as they were intended to, but there were still no plans in Rome to reform them. It was precisely at this time that Irish monks began to travel to the European continent to proselytize the heathen Franco-German tribes. At least a century earlier, these monks had developed a different practice of penance within their own communities, adapting a little-known tradition traceable to the first monastic communities in the Egyptian desert. St. John Cassian, who had lived with these desert monks, took their practices with him when he founded a monastery in France. His writings were later taken to Ireland and it is there that they found fertile soil. Traditional public penances of the kind practiced in the early Church were not an option for the desert monks: there were no Christian communities, let alone dioceses, in the Egyptian desert. Like the monks in Ireland after them, they were struggling to overcome venial “faults” in their quest for saintliness, not seeking reconciliation after committing grave offenses such as murder, adultery, and apostasy. "

Rodden does not tell us much about Egyptian monastic practices. Spiritual direction by a "father". i.e. a monk of advanced holiness (almost always not ordained) was a key practice that involved manifestation of conscience, telling the spiritual director all one's thoughts and emotions positive as well as negative. The spiritual father might make all sorts of suggestions, but these were not penances as the Irish developed them. 

"The Irish monks refined the work of Cassian, developing a system of confession in which the private recitation of sins was followed by the private performance of penance. Crucially, they not only adopted this practice themselves, but introduced it to the faithful outside the monastery, making it applicable to all sins and available to all sinners. Then, without formal ecclesiastical approval, the missionary monks shared these more relaxed and flexible practices with the new converts in Europe. As the Catechism of the Catholic Church summarizes it: “During the seventh century Irish missionaries, inspired by the Eastern monastic tradition, took to continental Europe the ‘private’ practice of penance, which does not require public and prolonged completion of penitential works before reconciliation with the Church. From that time on, the sacrament has been performed in secret between penitent and priest.” 

Rodden does not tell us much about the cultural background where these private penances were performed. My understanding is that the tribes of Northern Europe were very much into notions of tit for tat kinship justice, e.g., if someone killed your kinsmen you killed one of his kinsmen. My understanding is that these privately imposed but publicly known penances were intended to ward off blood feuds. So they were very much about reconciliation among Christians 

" In 1215 the Fourth Lateran Council established that penance would involve private confession and that all Christians in the Latin Church would be obligated to confess their sins at least once a year. It was also at this time that penance officially became a sacrament. (The “dark box”—the confessional booth located in the rear of most churches—wasn’t invented until the sixteenth century, during the Counter-Reformation.) 

Rodden does not emphasize how messy his history is for any modern attempt to craft a Sacrament of Reconciliation. The Public Penance sacrament was very much intended to deal with extreme cases such as murder, adultery, and apostacy which threaten local Christian communities. The NT has a lot about discord among Christians and ways to promote reconciliation among members. The power of church leaders, especially bishops, to bind (e.g. excommunicate people) and loose their sins, i.e. restoring them to unity was only about extreme cases. I suspect that presbyters were often involved in disputes about property, lies, accusations, etc. as something like an internal justice system, finding solutions and reconciling people with one another. 

When communities of solitaries formed in the desert around renowned monks, they likely exercised the same roles of reconciliation by charism as the presbyters exercised in city communities. In fact, we have evidence that people brought their problems including disputes to renowned monks. While I have an easy time imagining reconciliation processes that go back to NT times, the sacrament of holy orders was not so developed that holy but un-ordained people were viewed as incapable of spiritual direction and reconciliating people. 

What we had after 1215 was the clericalization of spiritual direction and reconciliation into a very juridical system which made Confession a private matter between God, the penitent and a priest rather than as public conversion and reconciliation.  Like the public penance system from the early church, and the private penance system of the Irish monks, private confession of sins was also poorly used by the laity. That is why there is a rule about annual confession for all those who have committed serious sins. Private confession was not popular either. 

The twentieth century practice of regular confession and weekly or daily communion is very recent. However, it also caused problems with many people plagued with scrupulosity, and unhealthy relationships with God and the clergy. Vatican II attempted to promote a more communal form of reconciliation but that was shot down by JPII by demanding that all absolution has to involve some form of private absolution by a priest.  

I am very concerned about the potential for abuse evident in relationships such a private confession, spiritual direction, and psychotherapy. 

A friend of mine who is a clinical psychologist is very concerned about what he calls the "silting effect."  He sees brief therapy in which therapist and client work on some problem that gets resolved in five to fifteen sessions as ideal. (most positive outcomes occur in that period). But what he has are many people who continue to come back again and again becoming dependent in an unhealthy way on the therapist. He calls it the silting effect because over time more and more of these clients occupy his caseload. 

A prominent Jesuit has reported the same problem in regard to spiritual direction. The idea of a retreat is to make a major decision about some area of one's life and then move on. Again, he found himself full of people who had become dependent upon him.  Now my friend and the Jesuit priest are really good guys who recognize the problem. What I am worried about are all the priests, spiritual directors, and therapists who become dependent upon these clients just as much as the clients become dependent on their confessors, directors, or therapists.  I don't think such relations are healthy for anyone. 

   



15 comments:

  1. I suppose there could be a codependent type of relationship which develops between a spiritual director and a directee. In order for that to happen though, that relationship would actually have to exist. Clergy are spread so thin here that even people who are supposed to have spiritual directors, such as deacons, have a hard time finding someone who has time for more than a few minutes, and that not on a regular basis. Maybe that's not a bad thing, I don't know. I think if they need advice, they probably would ask for it from their pastor, or someone they know.

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  2. So many problems with private confessions to a priest.

    Jack - Vatican II attempted to promote a more communal form of reconciliation but that was shot down by JPII by demanding that all absolution has to involve some form of private absolution by a priest.

    During my years as a Catholic post-Vatican II the long lines for confession disappeared. However penance services in Advent and Lent were packed. Too bad general absolution was banned.

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    1. The penitential rite during Mass is a type of general absolution, and addresses one's venial sins. For more serious ones, I think confessing them is good, it makes you own up to it. It's one of the "twelve steps", to admit one's failings to self and another person.
      It is said that the sacraments are outward signs of grace. Even with venial sins, I think sacramental reconciliation is good, even if it is more an act of devotion . The communal penance services are out in an open area for those who don't like confessionals. Ironically, the old style ones with the screen are more in line with the safe environments emphasis. Personally I would rather see the person I am talking with.

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    2. But having said that, not all priests are good confessors, it's a charism. It is something that one wants to choose carefully.

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    3. Katherine, from what I’ve experienced, and witnessed, and heard, and read, the term “ good confessor” is pretty much an oxymoron.

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    4. Katherine, I think the Episcopalians have the right idea

      As with the Roman Catholic Church, in the Episcopal Church you may make confession to, and receive absolution from, a priest. However, in the Episcopal Church we believe confession to God alone in prayer is sufficient for the forgiveness of our sins. The adage in the Episcopal Church for private confession is: all may, some should, none must.

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    5. Catholics also go directly to God for forgiveness; in fact that is what is supposed to happen before formal confession. And confession isn't mandatory except for mortal sins.

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    6. Most Catholics I know are not aware of the nuance about their Easter “ duty”. They think annual confession is mandatory. But most don’t worry about it and never go.

      Why formal confession to a priest if Catholics can also go directly to God?

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  3. Up until now, post-lockdown Masses have been somewhat sparsely attended, Last evening we had the Ash Wednesday service. It was a full church, the ushers had to get out the folding chairs. My husband said that the 8:15 AM Mass was similarly well attended, though it was the school Mass.
    Ash Wednesday is penitential, not like Easter or Christmas. People must have felt the need. We're in a somber time, with all that has happened.

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  4. America attempts to explain why so many Catholics, even those who rarely attend Mass, still get ashes:

    https://www.americamagazine.org/faith/2022/03/02/ash-wednesday-catholic-242449

    I am not sure that being a "Catholic" identity marker is a very convincing explanation except maybe for a few people. Also, other denominations are picking up on the practice.

    Wilton Cardinal Gregory went to the White House yesterday to give ashes to the president. Wonder what they talked about?

    I guess if I were in Wilton's shoes, I would have suggested that the Ukraine situation offers Biden a perfect opportunity to unite the American people and that dialing back the rhetoric about abortion on both sides would help.

    https://www.americamagazine.org/faith/2022/03/02/joe-biden-ash-wednesday-242498

    Biden announced that he has given up "sweets" for Lent. I suspect the popularity of receiving ashes has a lot to do with "giving up things" for Lent. It is like making New Year's resolutions again which are also very popular.

    I am not very much in favor of "giving up things" during Lent although my giving up TV as an adolescent did help me enter into a life-long habit of low TV viewing.

    Betty asked me yesterday if I was going to abstain from meat again on Wednesday and Fridays this Lent. Last year I did decide to do that as part of my long term move toward more vegetable protein. Actually, I decided Tuesday and Friday were better meatless days. The more important moves have been toward more vegetables and recently more fruit. So I think starting a practice in Lent is a good idea, but just doing something different in Lent is probably not a good idea.

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  5. I gave up trying to understand Catholic Confession/Reconciliation many years ago.

    I firmly believe that confession is good for the soul. I prefer to tell God I am sorry and apologize to the parties I have wronged if possible. In the case of my parents, who died while I was directing their care via medical power of attorney, I can't make it right. So I won't know if I made the right decisions for them until I feel the flames of Hell on my face. But I don't believe a priest who wasn't there would be able to parse it out, either, and their absolution or excommunication would be worthless.

    I would be interested to know what Jack sees as a "healthy" alternative to the current form of the sacrament.

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    1. A person can only do the best they can, I don't think God expects more than that.

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    2. Maybe God doesn't, but the Church does.

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  6. The Orthodox begin Lent this coming Sunday Evening with Forgiveness Vespers. At the end of the service the priest begins the ceremony of mutual forgiveness by saying that he forgives anyone who has offended him and then asks forgiveness of everyone, mentioning some things which he has done wrong. The person in the first pew (often his wife) goes up to him, saying similar things, they embrace in the kiss of peace, she stands to his right. The next person comes up and continues the process going down the line until everyone has forgiven and been forgiven by each other. During this ceremony the choir and everyone sings the “Paschal Praises” an exuberant song from the Easter Liturgy which contains the following words “let us forgive and embrace each other, even our enemies for Christ has risen from the dead.” While it is not considered the sacrament of confession by the Orthodox, it could form part of an improved rite for communal reconciliation.

    In my parish the Washing of the Feet on Holy Thursday has been extended to include communal foot washing. The priest first washes the feet of twelve teens who will facilitate the rest of the foot-washing. Then having established about six foot-washing stations, people are invited to have their feet washed and to wash the feet of others assisted by the teens. People generally choose the people with whom they want to engage in this practice, e.g., spouses, parents and children, etc. This is accompanied by appropriate music. It is also a ceremony that could be incorporated into a communal rite of reconciliation as a commitment to the humble service others.

    In other words, I think that we could devise a communal rite of reconciliation that would be similar to our current practice of communal anointing of the sick. In fact, the communal anointing of the sick functions in my life as a kind of sacrament of penance, confession, reconciliation. The Church's teaching is that it along with many other things forgives venial sins. The reality is that physical, emotional and spiritual sickness are often intertwined. People need anointing, prayer, and social support. We all need to realize that in many ways we are physically emotionally and spiritually not well.

    I am not against some use of private confession, just as I am not against retreats, occasional spiritual direction and psychotherapy. I just think most priests don’t get sufficient training to be good confessors or spiritual directors. Because of the secrecy of the confession there is no way to monitor the behavior of priests.

    One of the most profound spiritual experiences of my life was an individually directed retreat by a woman religious. She had obviously been well trained in non-directive therapy. She mainly reflected back to me things that I had said with minimal interpretation and gave me things to read that might be useful. At the end of the retreat, she gave me one directive. “At the beginning of this retreat, you told me that the things that had caused this retreat had been resolved. So, you really did not need spiritual direction. I don’t think you should seek out spiritual direction again.”

    I got the feeling that she was telling me that I was very lucky that I got her and not some else. The retreat was somewhat like a Transfiguration, through her eyes I was able to see God’s presence in my life, but also to realize that I did not need to be conscious of that presence to live well. I do not need a spiritual director not so much because I have all the answers but because I know that God is present in my life even when I don’t fully recognize that presence.

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  7. The Orthodox reconciliation ritual sounds a lot like Yom Kippur.

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