I had a dream last night which I have from time to time. It's not always the same, but the gist of it is: I've moved back into the dormitory I lived in as an undergraduate. In these dreams, apparently I'm not a husband and a father, but I've moved on in my life from college - I'm too old to be living in the dorms. It's like: I've already put in my time here; why am I back again? I spend a lot of time wandering the halls, trying to figure out which room is my room. Although this part didn't happen last night, there also is often an element in which I'm searching for my college classroom. I wander down to Lake Michigan (Loyola Chicago's Lakeshore Campus is on the lakefront, although the campus in my dreams is not exactly the real campus - more of a nightmarish composite of some neighborhoods in Chicago I lived in as a young adult).
When I was a younger adult, I used to have one or two variations of a somewhat different college-related dream: it is Finals Week at college, and I have come to realize I have an upcoming final in a class which, for some reason, I've forgotten to attend all semester. I spend a lot of time trying to find the classroom. I read a long time ago that Finals-related dreams are common among people who have gone to college. I believe the idea is: we dream about things that cause us stress, and for many of us, a college final is among the more stressful events in our lives (at least up to that point in our lives). It may be that the stress continues to haunt us for years after we've lived through that period of our lives.
That said: I'm not sure what the living-back-in-the-dorms dream is supposed to signify. Maybe it was more stressful for me than I realized to be living away from home for the first time. My father was so homesick when he went away to college that he left college and came back home after a semester.
Any idea what my dorm dream means? And do you have recurring dreams?