Monday, July 13, 2020

Seed on offer to all, but taking root only in some

This is my homily for Sunday July 12th, the 15th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle A.  The readings for Sunday are here.  I didn't preach at the mass which was recorded for the website, so no video this time.

If you’ve been following attentively, you may have noticed that we skipped a chapter.  Last Sunday’s Gospel reading, that beautiful passage in which Jesus beckons to us, “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest”, is the end of Chapter 11 in the Gospel of Matthew.  

Today, we’ve jumped ahead to the beginning of Chapter 13, which is this vivid parable of the sower and the seeds which you just heard.  We’ve leaped right over Chapter 12.  So here’s a quick recap of what we skipped:

First, Jesus gets into a dispute with the Pharisees because his disciples were hungry and picked grain on the Sabbath, which his enemies considered a violation of the Mosaic law.  Next, Jesus goes into a synagogue, where the Pharisees present him with a man with a withered hand, daring him to cure the man on a Sabbath – which Jesus does.  As a result, the Pharisees “went out and took counsel against him to put him to death.”  Undeterred, Jesus leaves and continues to cure others who were ill.  The Pharisees bring him a man possessed by a devil.  Jesus cures the man, whereupon Jesus’s enemies accuse him of being in league with Beelzebul the prince of demons.  More arguments ensue.  It’s clear that a band of Pharisees is following Jesus around, harassing him and his disciples.  Jesus, apparently losing his temper, tells them pointedly that rotten trees bear rotten fruit, calls them a brood of vipers, and tells them that by their own words they will be condemned.  The Pharisees continue to bait him, demanding that he provide them with a sign; Jesus flatly refuses, telling them that they and their generation are the worst ever.  Finally, Jesus’s own mother and brothers appear; but Jesus says, “Whoever does the will of my heavenly Father is my brother, and sister, and mother.”

In short, Chapter 12 is a chapter filled with conflict, in which Jesus is continually harassed and gives as good or better than he gets, so much so that his enemies plot his destruction.  In the course of it, he seemingly sets himself apart from his own community, his religious tradition and even his blood relations.  The disquieting conclusion is that many people, even those who are closest to Jesus, have rejected him.

I share this synopsis of a chapter which doesn’t appear in this cycle of Sunday readings because immediately following Chapter 12 comes today’s Gospel reading.  Today, we’re given this memorable allegory in which we learn that much of God’s word seemingly bears no fruit; only some of the seed which God sows will land in rich soil and bear good fruit.  Well, in light of all the conflict in the skipped-over Chapter 12, that’s hardly surprising: it seems that the seed of the word of God has not taken hold among a good part of Jesus’s own countrymen, and even among some of his own family.

We’re left pondering, perhaps uncomfortably, the reality – the mystery - that not everyone who hears the word of God accepts it.  God’s saving word is on offer to all of us; but it will be well-planted and bear good fruit only in a portion of us.  This can be an upsetting thing; at least it is upsetting to me.  Probably all of us have family members, friends and loved ones who were baptized, who were reared to be followers of Jesus, but who seemingly have fallen away.  This can be a great source of anxiety for us.  It can also be a cause of conflict and division in our families.

I consider this situation a mystery because there is no simple solution that I’m aware of.  It is a problem which has vexed Christianity for two millennia.  We can be sure that Matthew, whoever the person was who compiled this Gospel, included this parable in his compilation because it spoke to the experience of his faith community, just a few years after Jesus’s death, resurrection and ascension.  These early disciples witnessed with their own eyes that many to whom the Good News was proclaimed simply didn’t accept it.  And they witnessed that some disciples fell away when confronted with persecutions and troubles. And they witnessed that some disciples’ faith was choked off by worldly pursuits and distractions: lust, money and the other temptations which lure us off the path of discipleship.  Witnessing these things surely broke the hearts of these first disciples, just as much as our hearts are broken today when a family member stops going to church or announces that he or she doesn’t believe anymore.

As I say, I don’t have a ready solution to this problem. But I do have some suggestions.  The first is not to despair.  Not everyone walks a straight road from here to heaven.  Remember that the Prodigal Son was welcomed back with open arms by his father, even after walking away from his family obligations and squandering his share of the inheritance.  And remember that the good thief repented even as he hung upon the cross, at the very hour of his death.  We can follow the example of St. Monica, who prayed fervently and with many tears for her son Augustine.  I really do believe that prayers and holy tears are one way that we can cooperate with God’s plan.

My second suggestion is not to give in to spiritual pride.  For all we know, other people are watching us with worry, too.  Any or all of us are susceptible to temptation to fall away from the faith.  It can happen to any of us at any time.  St. Peter in his first letter assures us that the devil is prowling like a roaring lion, waiting to devour us.  There are evil forces at work in the world, and they are looking to make us fall.  Let us not assume that our own soil is so deep and rich that we are impervious to temptation.  Sin is all around us, looking to trip us up, trying to coil itself around us and choke off the abundant life with which God has blessed us.  Let us pray to God constantly to keep our own eyes open  that we may continue to see him, to keep our own ears open that we may continue to hear him, to keep our own hearts open that we may continue to love him.

I have family members who seemingly have fallen away.  And I have other loved ones who live in a sort of ambiguous, amorphous situation, not having firmly rejected belief in Jesus, yet not actively practicing discipleship, either.  Christian faith was part of their upbringing, and it is still a part of them in some way.  It’s quite possible that the word of God is a seed sitting dormant in their hearts, waiting to sprout, perhaps at an unexpected time, or perhaps because of a crisis in their lives.

In the face of this mystery of the word being offered to all but it taking root only in some, what we can do is to pray for these people whom we love, and to be open to opportunities to invite them to engage with Jesus.  And we can be watchful for our own sakes, lest we trip and fall.  And always, we should offer humble thanks that, so far, God has blessed us by being in our lives, despite our not being worthy of it, and we should offer humble prayer that he continue to be present in us, that his seed continue to bear fruit in us.

9 comments:

  1. I like a lot about your homily. "Not everyone walks a straight road from here to heaven." One thing all the members of my men's group have in common is children or grandchildren out on the rocky ground. Comes up all the time.

    Hitting the humility button was good, too. There is more of that in the coming week's Gospel.

    Knowing as much about agriculture as I do about neurosurgery (Some people can do it, and that is a good thing), I was surprised to learn that 100- or 60- or 30 fold is like saying someone will hit 400 home runs, or 250 or 200 in a season. Jesus' first hearers were probably astonished in ways that those of us who live amid constant exaggeration can't even imagine.

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  2. Thanks for sharing, Jim. I like it that you discussed the troublesome chapter 12. It always gives me an insight into Mary. Sometimes we think that she perfectly understood what Jesus' mission was, and was always serenely 100% behind it. Chapter 12 would indicate that she was like the rest of us parents, proceeding with imperfect knowledge, doing the best she could. And that she likely said, "Son, you're going to get yourself killed!"
    I am always amazed at the Pharisees who saw Jesus heal the man with the withered hand. Apparently they didn't even believe their own eyes.
    The parable of the Sower and the Seed makes me think of this song, Parable, which is often sung at funerals.
    About the seed which seems to be lost by falling on rocky soil, we can consider this article about a 2000 year old seed found by archaologists at Masada. We will remember that Masada was the site of a mass suicide, in which there were no survivors. The seed was planted by a scientist, and flourished to the point of bearing seed itself. Sometimes it takes a long time for seed to sprout, you are right that God hasn't given up on our loved ones.

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  3. As the resident “fallen away” Catholic here, I offer a few questions and thoughts for homilists and family and friends of the “fallen away” to think about.

    I have family members who .. have fallen away. ..I have other loved ones who … not having firmly rejected belief in Jesus, yet not actively practicing....

    Have all the “fallen away” rejected God? Jesus? Christianity? All belief – are atheists?

    Do you know this after conversing with them, or do you simply assume this?

    It is .. possible that the word of God is a seed sitting dormant in their hearts, waiting to sprout..

    How do you know that the seed is dormant? Perhaps it (faith) is flourishing, but outside of organized religion, in a way that it did not flourish while within it.

    be open to opportunities to invite them to engage with Jesus

    Same questions as above – how do you know that they don’t engage with Jesus? Or God?

    They may not do it in the same way that you do, but most studies indicate that those who leave a church, or organized religion completely, believe in God, pray, often read the bible, and engage in a variety of spiritual practices.

    … some disciples fell away when confronted with persecutions and troubles … faith was choked off by worldly pursuits and distractions: lust, money and the other …

    There are a lot of implications in this – negative ones – about why people leave church. Can you not even imagine a few positive reasons people might leave? I can think of many.

    our hearts are broken today when a family member stops going to church.

    Perhaps those who are brokenhearted should step back and examine their reason for this. Being brokenhearted because someone decides to follow a different path on the journey to God suggests that perhaps those who are judging this decision are made uncomfortable in their certainty that their way is the ONLY way.

    Or maybe they are concerned that others in their congregation are judging THEM because Junior no longer goes to mass. Or wondering why the young adult daughter is not going to communion (maybe she’s having sex with someone and she’s not married).

    the Prodigal Son was welcomed back … by his father, even after walking away from his family obligations and squandering his … inheritance. …the good thief repented even as he hung upon the cross, at the very hour of his death. …who prayed fervently … for her son Augustine.

    Again – all negative examples – a son who squanders his money, a thief, a son who lives a hedonistic life.

    Do you really think that ALL of those who leave the church are like these three examples? Don’t good people who try to follow God’s will also leave occasionally?

    The term “fallen away” should be avoided when discussing those who leave one type of religious practice for another. Or even for no religious practice. A “fall” implies an accident, rather than a choice. The choice might be a small one – I’ll miss mass this morning because I’m really tired. Eventually the no-mass decision may become a decision to leave. Perhaps the fear of eternal damnation for the “mortal” sin of missing mass was the only thing keeping someone there. Or maybe just fear of what Mom would say. Some decide that returning would be hypocritical – for an entire range of possible reasons.

    It does not necessarily mean that a person is lost to God, or that a person has fallen into a life of depravity. It simply means that they have made a choice to leave a specific religious community and join another that better meets their spiritual needs. Maybe it means that they don’t find organized religion to be a help on their spiritual journey at all – often it becomes a hindrance. My decision to leave the RCC was not a fall – not an accident – it was the result of years of study, prayer and reflection. This is true of many.

    And there are perfectly decent human beings who simply decide that religion isn’t for them.Even some atheists. Thankfully, it is God who will judge them, not other human beings.

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    1. Hi Anne, I agree with at least some of your points :-). Yes, yes, I've had conversations with people who apparently can't wait to tell me why they've walked away. In family and outside of the family.

      I flat-out don't believe that "most" who stop going to church continue to have flourishing spiritual lives. I just don't buy it. I believe it's more likely that they sleep more on the weekends, their golf handicap drops, they drink more coffee and read more of the Sunday newspaper, and they are catching up with whatever the hot series is on HBO.

      I also believe that being an active member of a faith community is a mark of discipleship. It's the norm. It's a basic expectation. To be sure, we might need to expand our definition of what constitutes a "faith community" (e.g. NewGathering might qualify). A parish with an ordained pastor and an attached primary school isn't the only possible model. But discipleship is intrinsically social, and it's social beyond the boundaries of family or relationship-with-significant-other. I don't discount the difficulty of the social dimension. A lot of people struggle with it. Heck, I do, too. There are people at my parish whom I try to love but whom I don't like very much. And many of us have a sort of satisfy-my-needs mindset which says, "I'm not getting much out of this place. Why waste my time here?"

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  4. Jim, it seems to me that you have indeed decided that your way is the “best” way for ALL. but basically it’s simply your opinion. An educated opinion, but only an opinion.

    You use only negative examples to discuss those who leave church. You continue to be dismissive of those who may not believe that following God requires being part of a church community. Ideally - you at least now concedes that there are other types of spiritual community. You believe that discipleship is intrinsically social - that it “must be” the “norm”. Why? Does this have to be true of everyone?

    I ...don't believe that "most" who stop going to church ...have flourishing spiritual lives. ...I believe it's more likely that they sleep more on the weekends, their golf handicap drops, they drink more coffee and read more of the Sunday newspaper, Etc.

    You BELIEVE one thing, I disagree with you. Some do, some don't. Very often the spiritual life of those you see golfing is hidden - many of us are somewhat solitary when it comes to our spiritual lives, sharing it only with a few.

    I suspect that your generalizations, your assumptions that most of those who leave have no spiritual lives is something you want to believe.

    Why? One possible reason might be that your own life is so intrinsically tied to official religious expression that you can’t even imagine a spiritual life without the formal structures. Without the hierarchies of clergy and of doctrine.

    I believe that religious expression may be a function of personality. Some need a lot of structure. Many need a black and white list of “thou shalt nots” and “this you must believe”. Or "the church teaches".

    Many think that they can’t have a relationship with God without intermediaries like priests or ministers and organized churches. You believe that. Believe - you don't know. Others (like me) BELIEVE that God is encountered in every part of life. That God’s grace is freely given to all God’s people, including the billion plus who aren’t living in the “Christian” world. That those who encounter God do so in many ways, not the same for all.

    I decided to research the term "fallen away". It the context of religion, it is almost always associated with Catholicism.

    A post came up at Pray, Tell blog. And guess what - you commented. But perhaps you missed a couple of the other comments.

    Scott Pluff: It’s easy to dismiss the CAPE Catholics (a great term) as shallow or selfish with their time, too busy going out for brunch, to the mall, or watching football to attend Mass on Sunday. But I know individuals who are very thoughtful about their faith, with strongly-held convictions, who have made a conscious decision to stop going to church except for a few times a year when they are drawn to return. Many of them have left for specific reasons. Some have theological or moral conflicts, others have issues with the particular pastor of their church. Some say they “don’t get anything out of it” perhaps with legitimacy if every week the homily is pointless, the music sags, and people are cold and unwelcoming.

    In many cases, our “Come Back to Church!” campaigns just remind them of why they left in the first place. ….


    Michael Plekon: My experience of young adults … is not of smug, superficial or amoral individuals but rather, of serious students, both unwilling and unable to accept much of the religious irrelevance and abuse that were were taught to endure and overlook...It’s easy to be misled by that small group of indulged and indolent young people who can be found on any campus, from church related to the most secular of institutions. I have found much religious searching among my students

    I will continue to pray that your mind will be opened to new insights. I worry especially about you, because of your official role in the church. You reach far more people than the rest of us.

    https://www.praytellblog.com/index.php/2015/01/13/m-t-d-and-c-a-p-e-catholics/

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    1. Anne, I believe you that many who aren't attending church have rich spiritual lives. I also believe you when you say that the term "fallen away" is offensive and negative. For that reason we should quit using it (though I do refer to myself as a fallen away and non-practicing Republican).
      There is a saying that "All who wander are not lost" which seems to fit the spiritual seekers who don't fit into the denominational or church attending box. I just don't happen to know many of these deeply intentional people. Which probably has to do with where I hang out. I do on the other hand know plenty of people, some of them in my extended family, who would rather do other things than go to church, and who don't seem to really care much about spiritual things, though some of them do go with their families on Christmas and Easter (as described in the Pray Tell article). I don't think that ministers of the church, including deacons, are sitting in judgement of these people. But their vocation is that they do work within the institutional church, and take seriously the Great Commission to preach the Gospel. And they probably wish for the non-so-spiritual ones that they develop a deeper relap with Jesus Christ. How best to facilitate that is an open question, and of course depends on what these people actually want.

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    2. Argh, I hate auto-correct. "relap" should be "relationship".

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    3. Katherine, some years ago I stumbled on the writings of Barbara Brown Taylor, an ordained Episcopal priest. She is among those named as America's "best preachers" and was named one of the 100 most influential people in the world by Time Magazine in 2014. Yet I'm betting that few Catholics have ever even heard of her (Tom has though). The two books I especially like of hers are "Leaving Church" and "Learning to Walk in the Dark".

      She popped up today in the email I get from Christian Century magazine, and her topic is relevant to this thread - Finding God Outside Church Walls.

      https://tinyurl.com/y74vxl3e

      I don't think that ministers of the church, including deacons, are sitting in judgement of these people.

      When I read that the "seeds" mentioned in the parable only flourish among the chosen sitting in the pews (why are they the chosen? It's a "mystery", but obviously God must love them in an extra special way). There is an implication that friends and family who are not there do not provide the "right" soil for the seeds to "flourish". I would call that sitting in judgment on those whose spirituality does not require being in a church pew every Sunday.

      Very few people who know me know anything about my spiritual life. I don't wear it on my sleeve. You all here know far more about it than people who know me in person, some of whom are "good" Catholic relatives who look at me as among the lost, as some here look at their relatives who have left the church. In my family, these are the same relatives who support Trump. Not so sure that the gospel message of Jesus has really taken root in their hearts and souls even though they never miss mass and are faithful rectory groupies no matter who the pastor is at any given time.

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  5. Article at NCRonline. It seems that it’s possible that the seeds of God’s word might be flourishing more among the non-church going Catholics than among those in the pews every Sunday.

    https://www.ncronline.org/news/opinion/editorial-trump-can-still-sway-some-catholic-voters-real-scandal

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