I see Francis as very much a Jesuit. He always stops on his trips to engage in conversation with the Jesuits of the location. The conversation is then published in the Jesuit magazine by his close collaborator, Antonio Spadaro S.J.
Friday, February 17, 2023
Tuesday, February 14, 2023
Valentine's Day and romantic relationships
This morning, during Morning Prayer, I said a little prayer for our married relationship, it being Valentine's Day and all. Nothing wrong with romance, even when you've been married for well over 30 years.
Then I figured, I may as well pray for the relationships of my siblings while I'm at it. But that quickly got complicated: two of them have been separated from their spouses for many years; one currently is going through a divorce; one is on his second marriage (which seems solid enough); the other two seem to be happily married. So a bit of a mixed bag.
Among my parents' generation, my parents have been happily married for 60+ years; another uncle and his wife for 50+ years, seemingly equally happy; another has been divorced for decades; and the other is on her second marriage which, from my rather distant vantage point, perhaps could be better.
As for my kids: they're all in their 20s. One has some sort of ambiguous relationship which, if there is romance and intimacy involved, he hasn't revealed it to us yet. The others have nothing cooking: no boyfriends, girlfriends, or even dates. I think the whole relationship-attachment thing is screwy for that generation. This NY Times article from a day or two ago: "Have more sex, please!" doesn't necessarily hit the bulls-eye when it comes to romance and happiness, but it does discuss the curious asexuality of that generation.
I prayed for all of them anyway, even if not all their relationships conform to society's Valentine's Day ideal. Romance doesn't happen to all of us all the time, but it's nice when it's there, and it's worth working for.
Happy Valentine's Day.
Sunday, February 12, 2023
Gun Violence Is the Leading Cause of Death for American Children
The sentence that makes up this post's title is a direct quote from a story in the New York Times titled Boy, 12, Is Fatally Shot by Owner of Stolen Car in Denver, Police Say, and in the story the sentence contains a link to an earlier piece titled Childhood’s Greatest Danger: The Data on Kids and Gun Violence. The piece is filled with shocking statistics. For example:
No group of American children has been spared, but some have fared far worse. Last year, nearly two-thirds of gun deaths involving children — 2,279 — were homicides. Since 2018, they have increased by more than 73 percent. Most homicides involved Black children, who make up a small share of all children but shoulder the burden of gun violence more than any others, a disparity that is growing sharply.
The number of children who die by suicide with a gun has also risen to a historical high over the last decade. Last year, suicides made up nearly 30 percent of child gun deaths — 1,078. Unlike homicides, suicides disproportionately involve white children, mostly teenage boys. A decade ago, the number of white children who killed themselves with a gun totaled around 500 annually; in three of the last five years, that figure has surpassed 700.
The share of gun suicides for Black and Hispanic children has been growing, too. Still, in America, among children who die by gunfire, Black and Hispanic children are more likely to be killed by others, and white children are more likely to kill themselves.
Gun accidents that kill children have also ticked up in the last decade, though they are relatively uncommon, totaling fewer than 150 in most years.
Is there anything to do but despair? I am all in favor of strict gun-control legislation, but is there any conceivable legislation—let alone legislation that has any chance of being passed and upheld by the Supreme Court—that would make a meaningful difference?
Friday, February 10, 2023
Catholic Parish Donations Steady, Fewer Donors
Donations to Catholic parishes steady, post-pandemic, but by far fewer donors
Wednesday, February 8, 2023
Pope Francis' Africa Trip
Pope Francis has returned from his trip to the two African countries of The Democratic Republic of the Congo, and South Sudan. He gave a good summary of the trip and what he wished to accomplish in his weekly Wednesday audience, delivered today.
The text of the address appears on the America media site: Pope Francis on his trip to Africa: God places his hope in the humble | America Magazine
I will post the text of his address after the break, and also comment a bit at the end:
Sunday, February 5, 2023
The trouble with Catholic church music
The problems with Catholic church music are frequently discussed, not least by Catholic music professionals. I'd like to share a couple of thoughts on the topic.
Light of the world
This is my homily for today, the 5th Sunday in Ordinary Time, Cycle A. The readings for the day are here.